#Metoo｜DJ SODA自爆6岁曾被强奸：当时父母都在工作，我独留家中

DJ SODA自爆被强奸。今日（21/08）于Instagram上发表声明，自爆6岁曾被入室盗窃的强盗强奸，迅速引起各界关注。

南韩女神DJ SODA早前出席位于日本大阪的音乐节活动，她在台下表演时遭到粉丝“胸袭”，事后她更崩溃表示有阴影，以后可能不会再靠近粉丝。事件传出后引起日韩港台等地的留意和传媒广泛报导，同日日本网民也迅速起底疑似抓到“胸袭”事件的犯人。

今日（21日）晚上9时左右，DJ SODA在社交平台以英文、韩文及日文发声明表示：“服装和性犯罪之间无关，永远不要让受害者成为问题，转移罪责。”她于交中透露自己曾于6岁时被强盗强奸，她写道：“当我6岁时，我的父母都在工作，我独自一人在家，遭到一名强盗强奸。那时，我撒谎告诉父母说我差点被抢劫，但我没有开门是因为害怕他们会受伤。这场震惊使我患上了选择性缄默症，我一直隐藏著，没有告诉任何人。2018年我参加韩国Spectrum音乐节时，我遭到VIP区的一名男子性骚扰，我试图找出他的身份。但那时，我认识的摄影师说：‘你赚得不错，现在的#MeToo运动很强大，如果一起做这件事，我们就难以维持生计。’听到这番话后，我无能为力，只能独自承受著耻辱感并保留著那人的照片。当我遭到海外DJ的性骚扰时，我从未收到道歉，只听说这只是个玩笑。我的前公司与某品牌谈判成为广告模特儿时，他们告诉我这会损害我的形象，要求我删除相关贴文。我一生中多次遭受性骚扰和性侵犯，我以为必须隐藏它，假装什么都没发生。”

最后她表示不想再躲避：“现在我不想再躲避也不想再躲避了，如果我不理会这一点，别人必然会成为受害者。”

DJ SODA全文如下：

Please check the post to read the whole statement. I couldn't write everything in the caption cause it was too long.

"It is nothing related between clothing and sexual criminal. You should never make the victim a problem and shift the blame for the crime. The cause is from the perpetrator, not the sexy clothes. The mindset that 'wearing revealing clothes is a trigger for sexual violence' is a very biased and androcentric view.

When I was 6 years old, both of my parents were working and I was home alone and raped by a robber. At that time, I lied to my parents and said that I almost got robbed but I didn't open the door because I was afraid my parents would get hurt. The shock caused me to suffer from selective mutism, and I've lived my life hiding it without telling anyone about it. And when I went to the Spectrum Festival Korea in 2018, I was sexually harassed by a man who was in the VIP, and I was looking for the person's identity. But at that time, photographer who I knew said, “You earn well, the #MeToo movement is strong these days, and if you do it together, it will be difficult for us to earn a living.” Then I couldn't do anything after hearing it and I couldn't help but keeping the picture of the person and suffering from feeling shame alone myself. And when I was sexually harassed by fellow overseas DJ, I never received apololgies and only heard that it was a joke. And my former company was negotiating with a brand for an advertising model, so they told me that it will deteriorate my image and asked me to take down the post about it. I was sexually harassed and molested several times throughout my life, and I thought I had to hide it and live as if nothing had happened.

But now I don't want to avoid or hide anymore. If I ignore this, someone else will inevitably become a victim. “Does being sexually harassed mean there's a problem with victims?". Why are you asking the victim for a cause? I think that perpetrators and secondary perpetrators are equally bad. It makes me sad that this is happening in 2023...." (continued on the post)

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