25岁Justin Bieber历尽人生高低　婚姻成人生转捩点：最好的阶段

流行歌手Justin Bieber周二（3日）在个人社交媒体上载了一段长文字，谈起自己年少成名后一直以来的心路历程：“当你的生活、过去、工作、责任、情感、家庭、财务和人际关系都不堪重负时，以正确的态度开始新的一天很难。当你觉得麻烦接踵而来，你开始通过‘恐惧’来预见这一天，并迎来另一个糟糕的日子。当你在失望中不断循环，有时甚至可以达到不想再活下去的程度，你觉得这状况永远不会改变......”可见他的心理压力之大。

Justin Bieber成名后的生活很富足，但内心的压力却无从宣泄：“你看我有很多钱、衣服、车、荣誉、成就、奖项，但我仍然不满足。”那时候，他还是尚未发育的孩子、亦在一个不安稳的家庭成长：“我的父母在我18岁时分开，那时他们没有钱、仍然年轻和反叛。随著我的才能发展，我变得非常成功，这一切都在两年之内发生，我的整个世界都被颠覆了。”

Justin Bieber续言：“我从一个小镇里的13岁男孩，摇身一变成为全世界都在称赞的人、数百万人说着他们多么爱我，我有多么伟大。小时候听到这些东西，就真的开始相信它。”在他的世界，每个人都围着他转，总是有人为他打点一切，现在他才如梦初醒：“我从来没有学习过基本的责任，所以在我18岁时在现实世界中没有任何技能，但拥有数百万美元，可以获得我想要的任何东西，这对任何人来说都是一个非常可怕的概念。”所以在他20岁时，做尽了所有世人能想像的坏决定，并从世界上最受喜爱和崇拜的人变成了世界上最嘲笑，最受批判和最讨厌的人！

Justin Bieber反思自己过去的行为：“我19岁开始滥药，并破坏我的人际关系。我变得怨恨，对女性不尊重。我疏远爱我的人，并躲藏在躯壳后面。我花了好几年时间从这些可怕的决定中恢复过来，修复破裂的关系，改变社交习惯。”而婚姻是他人生的转捩点：“幸运的是上帝赐予非常爱我的人。现在我处于生命中最好的‘婚姻’阶段；这是个新责任，你学会了耐心、信任、承诺、善良、谦逊以及所有看起来像个好人的品质。”

Khloe Kardashian留言：“ This is beautiful!! Thank you!! We are so proud of you!! I needed this! God bless you always”歌手Cody Simpson亦留言：“Love seeing this so much man! Wow”网民也纷纷留言：“年少成名，疯了一阵子之后静下来，发现自己才25岁。”、“Selena陪你长大，却不是最后的那个人。”

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It's hard to get out of bed in the morning with the right attitude when you are overwhelmed with your life your past, job, responsibilities, emotions, your family, finances, your relationships. When it feels like there's trouble after trouble after trouble. You start foreseeing the day through lenses of 'dread' and anticipate another bad day.A cycle of feeling disappointment after disappointment. Sometimes it can even get to the point where you don’t even want to live anymore. Where you feel like it's never going to change.. I can fully sympathize with you. I could not change my mindset. I am fortunate to have people l'm life that continue encourage me to keep going. You see I have a lot of money, clothes cars, accolades, achievements, awards and I was still unfulfilled. Have u noticed the statistics of child stars and the outcome of their life? There is an insane pressure and responsibility put on a child who's brain, emotions, frontal lobes (decision making) aren't developed yet. No rationality, defiant, rebellious, things all of us have to go through. But when you add the pressure of stardom it does something to you that is quite unexplainable. You see I didn't grow up in a stable home, my parents were 18 separated with no money still young and rebellious as well. As my talent progressed and I became ultra successful it happened within a strand of Two years. My whole world was flipped on its head. I went from a 13 year old boy from a small town to being praised left and right by the world with millions saying how much they loved me and how great I was. I don't know about you but humility comes with age. You hear theses things enough as a young boy and you actually start believing it, Rationality comes with age and so does your decision making process (one of the reasons you can't drink until your 21).. everyone did everything for me so I never even learned the fundamentals of responsibility. So by this point I was 18 with no skills in the real world, with millions of dollars and access to whatever I wanted. This is a very scary concept for anyone. By 20 I made every bad decision you could have thought of and went from one of the most loved and adored people in the world to the most ridiculed, judged and hated person in the world! Being on stage according to studies is a bigger dopamine rush than almost any other activity... so these massive ups and downs on their own are very hard to manage. You notice a lot of touring bands and people end up having a phase of drug abuse, and i believe its due to not being able to manage the huge ups and downs that come with being an entertainer. 

I started doing pretty heavy drugs at 19 and abused all of my relationships. I Became resentful, disrespectful to women, and angry. I became distant to everyone who loved me, and i was hiding behind, a shell of a person that i had become. I felt like i could never turn it around. It's taken me years to bounce back from all of these terrible decisions, fix broken relationships, and change relationship habits. Luckily god blessed me with extraordinary people who love me for me. Now i am navigating the best season of my life "MARRIAGE" !! Which is a an amazing crazy new responsibility. You learn patience, trust, commitment, kindness, humility and all of the things it looks like to be a good man. 

All this to say even when The odds are against you keep fighting. Jesus loves you... BE KIND TODAY> BE BOLD TODAY AND LOVE PEOPLE TODAY NOT BY YOUR STANDARDS BUT BY GODS PERFECT UNFAILING LOVE